So much has happened since my last posting. today i had an excellent day. Alhumdulilah.
actually the past few days have been blissful to say the least, mostly due to the new addition to my life "FATIMA" <<< oh what can i say about her ! in a nutshell dreams do come true... she's all Ive ever wanted in a woman, smart, sexy, willing to learn, and good sense of humour (touch wood) :)<<< We always concern ourselves with what the future could hold and try and almost predict what misfortune could occur i guess this is human nature to rather look toward and be prepared for the misfortune to occur however i choose differently as i know that what is in my hands is but little control, and to tell you the truth I'm surprised I've lived this long, so having this perspective on my short existence I would like to make the most of the valuable time i have left ! folly to the fool you might say but really what choice do we have ?
peace love unty respect ! shamiel (short but sweet i'm way to tired ! love you all !
Monday, March 29, 2010
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
my prelude character analysis...
The ENFJ is the people organiser, warm, harmonious and an enthusiastic champion of people who just wants to ‘do good.’ They make sure the needs of the people are paramount, placed in pole position on the agenda, and taken care of. They are excellent networkers who tune into what others want and are generally well-liked and popular among their colleagues. The have an innate sense of what is required and can genuinely make others feel really special. They can generally be found at the emotional heart of a group or body and will be the one making sure things get done.
Like their ENTJ cousins they are great ones for getting on and doing but with a much more people focus than task focus, but with no less energy, commitment or vigour. Articulate and confident the ENFJ will be persuasive and tenacious; the one voted the leader or committee chair-person. Everyone knows they can depend on the ENFJ.
As ‘Thinking’ is their weaker function, the ENFJ may suffer at times from being overly subjective and lacking a colder, slightly more dispassionate objective eye on proceedings. This also means the ENFJ may bite off more that they can chew as their first priority is to say ‘yes’ and take the pain away for others. During such times the ENFJ may feel weighed down by the amount of work to which they have committed and so see themselves as ‘victim,’ overwhelmed and underappreciated.
PCA SquaresThey want to please, impress and make sure things run like clockwork and when others let them down the ENFJ can be VERY disappointed. This desire to ‘do good’ can also mean that the ENFJ sees pleasing others as far more important than pleasing themselves and so they may run the risk of trading off honesty for harmony, keeping the peace rather than telling it like it is.
The ENFJ has high drive, bundles of energy and a commitment to ‘the cause,’ (whatever that cause is) which borders on the evangelical. Their energy levels increase the more functions they have to attend, the more people they have to meet and the more activities they have to organise. They can juggle masses of activities and tasks at any one time, rarely dropping the ball and making sure each activity is given the right amount of attention and loving care. This desire to ‘get it done’ can at times mean that the ENFJ becomes inflexible and a ‘controlling parent’ in their desire to ‘finish what we’ve started.’ Under such pressure they can lose their sense of balance and perspective but will ultimately bounce back because that is just what the ENFJ is built for.
The ENFJ is the action-oriented, people-centred character. They will look for and make connections between people, be excellent glue for the team and make sure that everything is planned, scheduled and organised. An ENFJ is astutely empathetic picking up on the nuances and making sure people are happy.
Their decisions are based on values, impact on people and establishing harmony. The action-oriented side of the ENFJ character means that they will readily assume responsibility, and drive issues through to closure. Primarily these will be people issues or issues which directly affect people. In this sense they make good 'committee people,' bringing others in and involving them but ensuring there is a clear output which benefits all.
PCA SquaresAn ENFJ will use their considerable energies and enthusiasm to make things happen and these characteristics are infectious and can be excellent at creating a feeling of 'team.' As the ENFJ will be creative, expressive, animated and with the desire to get things done they will be excellent at creating and maintaining group morale.
Their desire to take control and bring order and harmony can also mean that the ENFJ may, at times, 'rail-road' others who are looking for a more gentle approach as they are so keen to get to closure. As the ENFJ wants to 'do good,' they may become a 'controlling parent' and assume they know what's best.
At times they may also rely too much on their intuitive understanding of individuals, thus failing to making logical, empirical decisions based on objective facts and evidence, and the ENFJ may see good where none exists.
The 'N' perspective also means that the ENFJ may fail to see the smaller 'facts,' focusing instead on 'global harmony.' This would see the ENFJ move too quickly and make decisions based on a scant amount of facts. Their sensitivity can also work two ways. Sure the ENFJ will be sensitive to the needs of others but this sensitivity can mean the ENFJ is overly reactive to perceived criticism of them. In these instances, the ENFJ may become self-indulgent and feel that their good intentions are being undervalued.
PCA Squares Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's usually not meant as manipulation - ENFJs generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually are.
ENFJs are, by definition, Js, with whom we associate organization and decisiveness. But they don't resemble the SJs or even the NTJs as they are organised in the arena of interpersonal affairs. Their offices may or may not be cluttered, but their conclusions (reached through feelings) about people and motives are drawn much more quickly and are more resilient than those of their NFP counterparts.
ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk of being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.
In a team situation, the ENFJ will be the harmonious team builder, good at maintaining group morale, accentuating the positive and encouraging contributions from all team members making the team more open and participative.
Like their ENTJ cousins they are great ones for getting on and doing but with a much more people focus than task focus, but with no less energy, commitment or vigour. Articulate and confident the ENFJ will be persuasive and tenacious; the one voted the leader or committee chair-person. Everyone knows they can depend on the ENFJ.
As ‘Thinking’ is their weaker function, the ENFJ may suffer at times from being overly subjective and lacking a colder, slightly more dispassionate objective eye on proceedings. This also means the ENFJ may bite off more that they can chew as their first priority is to say ‘yes’ and take the pain away for others. During such times the ENFJ may feel weighed down by the amount of work to which they have committed and so see themselves as ‘victim,’ overwhelmed and underappreciated.
PCA SquaresThey want to please, impress and make sure things run like clockwork and when others let them down the ENFJ can be VERY disappointed. This desire to ‘do good’ can also mean that the ENFJ sees pleasing others as far more important than pleasing themselves and so they may run the risk of trading off honesty for harmony, keeping the peace rather than telling it like it is.
The ENFJ has high drive, bundles of energy and a commitment to ‘the cause,’ (whatever that cause is) which borders on the evangelical. Their energy levels increase the more functions they have to attend, the more people they have to meet and the more activities they have to organise. They can juggle masses of activities and tasks at any one time, rarely dropping the ball and making sure each activity is given the right amount of attention and loving care. This desire to ‘get it done’ can at times mean that the ENFJ becomes inflexible and a ‘controlling parent’ in their desire to ‘finish what we’ve started.’ Under such pressure they can lose their sense of balance and perspective but will ultimately bounce back because that is just what the ENFJ is built for.
The ENFJ is the action-oriented, people-centred character. They will look for and make connections between people, be excellent glue for the team and make sure that everything is planned, scheduled and organised. An ENFJ is astutely empathetic picking up on the nuances and making sure people are happy.
Their decisions are based on values, impact on people and establishing harmony. The action-oriented side of the ENFJ character means that they will readily assume responsibility, and drive issues through to closure. Primarily these will be people issues or issues which directly affect people. In this sense they make good 'committee people,' bringing others in and involving them but ensuring there is a clear output which benefits all.
PCA SquaresAn ENFJ will use their considerable energies and enthusiasm to make things happen and these characteristics are infectious and can be excellent at creating a feeling of 'team.' As the ENFJ will be creative, expressive, animated and with the desire to get things done they will be excellent at creating and maintaining group morale.
Their desire to take control and bring order and harmony can also mean that the ENFJ may, at times, 'rail-road' others who are looking for a more gentle approach as they are so keen to get to closure. As the ENFJ wants to 'do good,' they may become a 'controlling parent' and assume they know what's best.
At times they may also rely too much on their intuitive understanding of individuals, thus failing to making logical, empirical decisions based on objective facts and evidence, and the ENFJ may see good where none exists.
The 'N' perspective also means that the ENFJ may fail to see the smaller 'facts,' focusing instead on 'global harmony.' This would see the ENFJ move too quickly and make decisions based on a scant amount of facts. Their sensitivity can also work two ways. Sure the ENFJ will be sensitive to the needs of others but this sensitivity can mean the ENFJ is overly reactive to perceived criticism of them. In these instances, the ENFJ may become self-indulgent and feel that their good intentions are being undervalued.
PCA Squares Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's usually not meant as manipulation - ENFJs generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually are.
ENFJs are, by definition, Js, with whom we associate organization and decisiveness. But they don't resemble the SJs or even the NTJs as they are organised in the arena of interpersonal affairs. Their offices may or may not be cluttered, but their conclusions (reached through feelings) about people and motives are drawn much more quickly and are more resilient than those of their NFP counterparts.
ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk of being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.
In a team situation, the ENFJ will be the harmonious team builder, good at maintaining group morale, accentuating the positive and encouraging contributions from all team members making the team more open and participative.
Monday, March 15, 2010
days of my life...
An Update should not be delayed for so long... I have like 145bpm's thrashing away in my eardrums :) lol and loving it...
okay so this blog will be kind of a flash back then a flash forward then a stop in the present so please bear with me ...
Thursday 11 march 2010 . i have no clue at this stage what i done on that day besides cancelling a meeting with some dude, oh okay hold on now i recall... but before i tell you that i find the latest okay not so latest craze saying whatever comes to mind be it something distasteful or other then just adding a smiley :) face or lol < like that supposed to grant immunity for all the crap you just said a few minutes earlier okay thats of my chest > moving on yes Thursday past i find out that one of my Mic's were bust so needed to buy some new ones and my local dealer was ready to supply :) thanks to my hommies at SK sound you guys rock and you all freaky :) < see what i mean with the smiley face... told you in my first blog that the asylum could be my home > carrying on to friday very blurry day like most friday's
all i recall right now is the jumuah talk by ml Allie from the jmc or is it mcj darn okay lets try one more time MJC :) his talk was about (closing my eyes and looking for a flash back) need to get back to you on this one... friday evening had the hottest vistor come to my crib , she had to meet the 'fockers' fun ! :) i'm stupid in love . ps ! the rest of the night was hmmmm.... i'll be back >
shaturday ~~~ was fun filled . had an early pow pow with volunteers, was fun extremely positive vibrations emanated from the discussion, the round up was we should be leading to a more spiritual realm... < more to follow on this topic in future blogs
IA ~~~~ Then the highlight for the day > the opening of the Islamic centre in delft informal area, wow fancy neh' everyone was surprised at the new centre and the extreme positivity by the residents in the area, too top it all off 4 people embraced life of submission to the one true Creator. < awesome 3000
then the much anticipated night gig on athlone , so myself and my gaffer road to the civic centre only to be told that it was "davids wedding" in my confusion i asked "is David from Malawi" :) :) :) okay so david defiantly was getting married at that venue so we needed to find the new venue, seeing we were booked by a group of super cool Malawians we guessed they had there bearing mixed up :) (okay pause for a sec. take a deep breath and baby if your reading this I LOVE YOU) :) cont.. okay we eventually found the venue which was the eon group building , now that was cool and i gotta thinking what kinda gig was this ? got too the venue to be greeted by the most beautiful people God has blessed this planet with (beats still running at 145bpm's ) my brothers and sister from the other end of african continent and beyond.~~~~ Up we went to the stage area got a quick brief from the organisers, okay so it was a meet and greet with the most prominent youthful future leaders of Malawi, the setup looked good on the base rim of the stage so myself and my gaffer had front row seats (: ps ! a quick 411 on my gaffer his a super cool young brother i dragged out of jamat to help me ain't dat just so cool ? yes i like my gaffer ! :) okay now i'm tired blog to be cont...
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
day by day
2.54am, I have a combination of love sickness and insomnia! But I’m leaning toward love.
Can’t truly explain how I feel. Alhamdulillah. Very content and pleased with my current state.
Living my life in the now is important.
The past few days were in one word blurry :)
Friday night I was the dj at a Moroccan style party. The celebration was for Sharmia who was turning 29 and also had attained her honours degree, the party was fun but let me add I could not see anything??? Okay let me explain> it was ladies only party so I had to be there but invisible. :) They placed my setup behind a 1.8m barrier where I could literally not see the ladies (pretty cool hey). so what do I recall okay seeing hands in the air , shouting, crying laughing crying , belly dancers, massages, henna tattoo artists, speeches, crying, basically good clean fun and let me tell you if you think we guys can party you ain't seen nothing yet or in this case aint heard nothing yet. Looking forward to doing another gig like this. IA
Saturday morning work mostly running around for next day’s event preparations, then thereafter spent the day with a very special person (who is going to be my wife)IA , and started to fall even harder..! Briefly > drove around the peninsula and discovering new things about each other > day was priceless.
Got home to all my uncles, aunties and their spouses having a general meeting of the many positive outcomes my parents also announced their intention to go on hajj. IA my uncle also announced that he and his family would also be going on Hajj this year, the other uncle announced plans for Umra starting end march. the family meeting resulted in a date being set for a huge slamang family clan gathering to join the Hearts of family members basically.
Sunday was hectic had a morning gig at the Masjied hall where I promised to dj for a wedding, and of course it was the same day as our Nasheed event so the morning we spent setting up the hall the rushing home picking up equip setup up Masjied hall jam till 3pm then back home shower and made me look pretty then off to Nasheed gig where the temperature was about 35 degrees lol
the event was awesome to say the least , fun was had by all and I was completely shocked at the
level of competition and the general feel at the event was good and positive. Alhamdulillah. I was on the stage with Taj having the best of time fun fun fun.
okay so after the event it was clean-up time. then I dropped the biggest bouquet of flowers by my future wife. I was tired a little tatie but what’s new :) she loved them... so did her mum!
Monday I went to eye clinic and was told my operation was successful and I would not need to return to the clinic unless I see a grey curtain or flashing beams...
Spent the rest of the day dotting some i's and crossing some t's. surprise that I went to my old bank account and was told I had some dormant funds which I could receive in 32 days time. & I’m Rica compliant now :)
Tuesday very positive day at office we all we chatting about the Nasheed event the past Sunday feedback & constructive criticism. and I know so much more happened on tues but as I said blurry right now will update as I recall
Wednesday also a cool day spent about almost an hour debating a Christian about the Muslims understanding of God, was very interesting.
the rest of the day was blurry mostly prepping for the weekends opening of our township Islamic community complex. More to follow
Can’t truly explain how I feel. Alhamdulillah. Very content and pleased with my current state.
Living my life in the now is important.
The past few days were in one word blurry :)
Friday night I was the dj at a Moroccan style party. The celebration was for Sharmia who was turning 29 and also had attained her honours degree, the party was fun but let me add I could not see anything??? Okay let me explain> it was ladies only party so I had to be there but invisible. :) They placed my setup behind a 1.8m barrier where I could literally not see the ladies (pretty cool hey). so what do I recall okay seeing hands in the air , shouting, crying laughing crying , belly dancers, massages, henna tattoo artists, speeches, crying, basically good clean fun and let me tell you if you think we guys can party you ain't seen nothing yet or in this case aint heard nothing yet. Looking forward to doing another gig like this. IA
Saturday morning work mostly running around for next day’s event preparations, then thereafter spent the day with a very special person (who is going to be my wife)IA , and started to fall even harder..! Briefly > drove around the peninsula and discovering new things about each other > day was priceless.
Got home to all my uncles, aunties and their spouses having a general meeting of the many positive outcomes my parents also announced their intention to go on hajj. IA my uncle also announced that he and his family would also be going on Hajj this year, the other uncle announced plans for Umra starting end march. the family meeting resulted in a date being set for a huge slamang family clan gathering to join the Hearts of family members basically.
Sunday was hectic had a morning gig at the Masjied hall where I promised to dj for a wedding, and of course it was the same day as our Nasheed event so the morning we spent setting up the hall the rushing home picking up equip setup up Masjied hall jam till 3pm then back home shower and made me look pretty then off to Nasheed gig where the temperature was about 35 degrees lol
the event was awesome to say the least , fun was had by all and I was completely shocked at the
level of competition and the general feel at the event was good and positive. Alhamdulillah. I was on the stage with Taj having the best of time fun fun fun.
okay so after the event it was clean-up time. then I dropped the biggest bouquet of flowers by my future wife. I was tired a little tatie but what’s new :) she loved them... so did her mum!
Monday I went to eye clinic and was told my operation was successful and I would not need to return to the clinic unless I see a grey curtain or flashing beams...
Spent the rest of the day dotting some i's and crossing some t's. surprise that I went to my old bank account and was told I had some dormant funds which I could receive in 32 days time. & I’m Rica compliant now :)
Tuesday very positive day at office we all we chatting about the Nasheed event the past Sunday feedback & constructive criticism. and I know so much more happened on tues but as I said blurry right now will update as I recall
Wednesday also a cool day spent about almost an hour debating a Christian about the Muslims understanding of God, was very interesting.
the rest of the day was blurry mostly prepping for the weekends opening of our township Islamic community complex. More to follow
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
my love story
Salaam, OK Alhumdulilah.
Plans are in place to sort out accommodation to house my new family. :)
I'm feeling very positive and thrilled at the prospect of having an instant family and feel its a gift from Allah(swt).
more... to follow IA
:) :) :)
Plans are in place to sort out accommodation to house my new family. :)
I'm feeling very positive and thrilled at the prospect of having an instant family and feel its a gift from Allah(swt).
more... to follow IA
:) :) :)
Friday, March 5, 2010
My first blog
Today is Friday the 5 March 2010 and I decided to start my first blog. :)
My mood today is very positive , and there's just so much good things happening in my life that I really don't have any reason to complain. Praise be to God. this blog is going to be very short and for me i think the main purpose for my blogs would for me to be reminded of were i was and where I'm now. i guess i will share most of my thoughts but not all of them otherwise you would need to lock me up in an asylum. lol
so that's it for now(15.07) I'll see you later...
My mood today is very positive , and there's just so much good things happening in my life that I really don't have any reason to complain. Praise be to God. this blog is going to be very short and for me i think the main purpose for my blogs would for me to be reminded of were i was and where I'm now. i guess i will share most of my thoughts but not all of them otherwise you would need to lock me up in an asylum. lol
so that's it for now(15.07) I'll see you later...
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